Water Colour: 10 tips to keep the passion for Christmas

Friday, December 13, 2013

10 tips to keep the passion for Christmas

 Clinical psychologist , María del Carmen Moyano Rojas, founder of Anagnor Psychologists has developed ten tips for improving shared sexuality and revitalize your love life in the coming year , which comes out a common denominator: to be right with our partner we also have to be good about ourselves ...

1. Exit routine and be more creative .
Although it seems difficult to escape the automation , it is not so . A simple formula is to pay attention to the " have to " or is our obligations or we set ourselves and make our lives is not so, but that makes us behave like automatons . Stop the " have to " by " feel " , referring to what already felt what make us feel good , and our creativity will emerge naturally.
Two . Improve erotic communication.
A basic principle of communication is that it is impossible to " not communicate" , so if we need to improve communication erotic level is that there are other forms of communication that have fallen into silence. Another magic formula : change the " I can not for the love ," or better, " the want by I can ."
Three . Cultivate the 'wow factor ' .
The surprise your partner has to do with taking care of oneself, it is absolutely essential to take care of others, of the relationship. If we are attentive to what we like , we can give so generously to surprise each other .
April . Allow everyone feels free and spontaneous .
To live the relationship with freedom and spontaneity have to be respectful and that respect for not putting adjectives begins to see and experience . I mean not to make value judgments . It's hard to hurt or harm us , if we are not prosecuted or prosecute others.
May . Enhance foreplay and foreplay .
The relationship established in the erotic and the sexual is done from the childish part that exists in each of us . And when we are children the relationship with others is established from the game. So:Let's play a lot with friends !
6. Search times and ideal environments.
Live our sexuality in a healthy way involves maturity. A sign of this maturity is to be able to tell the difference between the private and the public. The wisdom lies in choosing the right person , the best way to live and feelings in the most favorable context. In the public sphere , showing respect for our partner and private , creating the most desirable situations.
7. Encouraging emotional closeness and tenderness .
The "completeness " , ie the quality of being fully human , is achieved when we have a partner who is complicit in our feelings. Tenderness about us and makes us feel safe .
8. Funniest Relations.
Recall that our most fun part to our child,get him out more ! In addition , laughter strengthens our psyche.
9. Finding the right frequency for both .
 There is no ideal regularity , since each of us is unique and unrepeatable . No one has ever been like us and never will be another like me. The frequency is synchronized with the knowledge of others and always will stimulate more if we ourselves are good.
10. Attentive to the sexual self-esteem.
Self-esteem can not be improved , either have or do not have. If our estimates feeds the other, what others make us feel , on this 'other' to leave we will run estimates . And if what we do is " desestimarnos " is suitable to visit a professional .

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